Thrusting Dildo Guide - 12 Positions and Tips

As most people know, dildos are special toys used for personal pleasure, and the thrusting dildo is a unique kind of them.


While a regular dildo is controlled by hand, an automatic thrusting dildo, like its name suggests, can make its own thrusting movements. Yes, this special toy can imitate the same motion as sexual activity, offering an experience powered by the toy itself. It saves users from having to do the work themselves, providing an easy satisfying option.


How to use a thrusting dildo? Keep reading as we share 12 clever positions and tips to get the most enjoyment from the self thrusting dildo. Whether you've used one before or you're just curious, we're sure that this exciting toy will make your personal experiences even better, helping you discover new joy.

 

Basic Positions


1. Missionary

The classic missionary position is a good ideal for using a thrusting dildo. For starters, it’s one of those positions that allow you to lie down in a comfortable position with easy access to your clit.
To get into this position, simply lie on your back, spread your legs, and after applying lubricant to the dildo, gently insert it.
Relax and enjoy the sensation of the dildo's movements, which can provide excellent G-spot stimulation. You can also stroke your nipples or clit and enjoy having all your erogenous zones stimulated.

 

Pro Tip: You can put a pillow under your pelvis to ensure deeper penetration.

2. Doggy Style

Doggy style provides excellent control over the depth and rhythm of the auto thrusting dildo. You can increase or decrease the intensity as desired.

On a bed or any place that allows you to be comfortable and adjust your position subtly, adopt a four-point stance, with your knees bent and elbows supporting your body. Gently slide the dildo inside. This is the basic form of the doggy style position.

 

Pro Tip: To add to the excitement, you can watch a porn video. Choose one that features an angle that makes it easy to imagine you’re being penetrated from behind by a partner.

3. Spooning

Spooning position can be a great way to use a thrusting dildo even when you're alone. Lying sideways and entering the dildo from the side can give you a deep stimulation that offers a different experience altogether.
Start by finding a comfortable place such as a bed or a couch. Lie on your side in a fetal-like position. You should resemble a spoon in this curled up posture, which is where the "spooning" term originates. Bend your knees slightly towards your chest for better access.

 

Pro Tip: Spooning allows double penetration for vulva owners. Your partner can perform anal penetration while you use the dildo vaginally. They can also touch your breasts or partake in clitoral stimulation for added pleasure.

4. Legs Up

Raising your legs can quite literally open new depths for the thrusting dildo, offering enhanced stimulation.
Lie on your back then raise both your legs up towards your chest. You may want to support your legs or lower back with pillows if needed for comfort. Hold the vibrating thrusting dildo in your hand and gradually insert it while controlling the angle and depth to suit your comfort and pleasure.

 

Pro Tip: You can try different depths and move your feet around to find what feels best.

5. Double Penetration

You're not alone in yearning for the amplified pleasure that comes with double penetration! Invest in two thrusting dildoes, or a double-ended thrusting dildo. These are your handy tools for trying out double penetration solo. Start with one first to find what feels best. Use lots of lube and take your time to get used to it. Remember, your clitoris needs attention too! Use a thrusting rabbit dildo / anal thrusting dildo, or you can try other toys like nipple clamps or a ball gag to add more fun.

 

Pro Tip 1: If you plan on switching the toys between anal and vaginal use, make sure to clean them before each switch or consider using condoms on the toys.
Pro Tip 2: Some positions can make double penetration easier. You might lay on your back, with one dildo placed on a flat surface that you can lower yourself onto, and use the thrusting anal dildo in your hand for anal penetration.

Explore More With A Suction-cupped Thrusting Dildo

A suction cup on a thrusting vibrating dildo truly adds to the experience. It sticks to any flat surface, offering a wide array of position options. Be it in the bedroom or the shower, it ensures your toy stays put, bringing stability and control into play. This feature makes it an adaptable, fun, and convenient tool for varying needs. Plus, with the suction cup, you can try more positions, making your alone time even more exciting!
Keep reading to discover the endless possibilities that a suction cup on a thrusting dildo can offer.
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6. Reverse Cowgirl

Performing a cowgirl position provides total control over speed and depth, adding to the interaction and pleasure.
Attach your suction cup thrusting dildo to the floor and Ensure it is firmly secured and does not slide away during use. Squat and slowly insert the dildo. It's helpful to use your knees and legs to balance and control the movement. Allow the tip of the dildo to press against your vaginal or anal opening, and very slowly apply pressure. Ensure that there‘s something for you lean on in case of balance loss.

 

Pro Tip: We also recommend you to try leaning further back and forward to fully experience the different angles this position has to offer. You can use your palms for support to maintain balance.

7. On the Edge of the Bathtub

If your bathtub has a wide and flat edge, you could stick your suction cup thrusting dildo there. Straddle the bathtub edge and gently lower yourself onto the dildo. One leg should be inside the bathtub while the other stays outside. You can use the walls, shower curtain, or sides of the bathtub for support. The height of the dildo is crucial for your comfort. Ensure it's at a comfortable height for you to straddle without causing any discomfort to your knees or hips.

 

Pro Tip: You can use pillows or a stool if needed to adjust your height.

8. In a Chair

Considering the use of a chair for your pleasure? Try the following. First, attach your lubricated thrusting dildo toy to the seat of your chair. Then, position yourself facing the back of the chair, using it for support. This not only offers more comfort but also eases the load on your legs. Absolutely, the chair should be smooth and made of a hard solid substance such as wood or plastic.

 

Pro Tip: For more pleasure, you can move back and forth on the dildo at a pace and depth.

9. On the Shower Wall

It seems common and simple, but it's actually challenging to master. The key is to align your mounted toy with the height of your vaginal or anal entrance. Too high or low and it becomes difficult to maintain a steady rhythm. A useful tip is to start in a doggy position. Insert the tip first, then attach it to the wall while it's still inside you. If you’re planning on using it with the water running, your dildo is at least splashproof.

 

Pro Tip: It's important to mention that dildos that curve upwards or those that are long and bendable are generally better options. However, some thrusting dildos may not have these features due to their design.

10. On the Headboard of the Bed

If you prefer using your suction cup dildo in the familiarity of your bed, that works great too! Just find a non-fabric part of your headboard, perhaps wooden, and attach your suction cup dildo to it. This way, you can indulge in pleasure as you lean on your comfy pillows and blanket for support. Plus, it opens up plenty of fun and exciting angles to experiment with. Enjoy!

 

Pro Tip: For optimal comfort, it's advisable to maintain a small gap between the mattress and the headboard, providing a space for your toes.

11. On the Table Leg

A table leg that is thick enough and has a smooth surface is a must. Make sure the table is sturdy and stable to prevent any unwanted accidents during use. The advantage of using table legs is that you can put one leg on either side and get some deeper penetration.

 

Pro Tip: Same as mentioned in No.9, If you are trying it for the first time, it’s a little difficult to secure the toy at the right height. We suggest inserting the toy first, then sticking it onto the table leg.

12. On the Counter Edge

Choose a spot on your counter edge that's at the right height. It's important the counter hits roughly your hip level. Attach the dildo to the counter edge. Facing towards or away from the counter, ride on dildo and adjust your position until it feels comfortable. Try leaning forward or backward to explore different sensations.

 

Pro Tip: The key is to support your own weight on the edge of the counter, and this position should allow for a lot of movement in the hips.

In Ending

The best way to enjoy a thrusting dildo is to experiment. Don't hold back from trying the new positions and tips we've shared. Remember, having fun while you explore is just as important as reaching your goal. Make the most of each moment, always remembering that your comfort and happiness come first. Enjoy your adventures!

 

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